Introduction
BEVERLY HILLS, CA — In a city where love fades faster than the spotlight, Dean Martin and his former wife Jeanne Martin proved that real love doesn’t die — it just changes form. Though officially divorced in 1969, the couple’s connection remained quietly unshakable for decades, surviving fame, heartbreak, and devastating loss.
A special A Current Affair Thanksgiving feature peeled back the curtain on one of Hollywood’s most enduring emotional ties — one born in glamour but forged in pain.
They were once the golden couple of Tinseltown: Dean, the suave crooner of the Rat Pack, and Jeanne, the elegant beauty who stole his heart. But behind the charm and cocktails was a love that refused to fade, even as their marriage legally ended.
Their final test came with tragedy — the 1987 death of their son, Dean Paul “Dino” Martin Jr., whose Air Force jet crashed in the California mountains. The world watched as Dean and Jeanne, no longer husband and wife, clung to each other in shared grief. That heartbreak didn’t rekindle a romance — it revealed what never truly disappeared.
Hollywood journalist James Bacon, a longtime friend, recalled the dark times when Dean’s health collapsed and his inner circle disappeared. Jeanne, he said, never did.
“A few years ago, Dean nearly died,” Bacon said bluntly. “He was hooked on Percodan, and of course, he was drinking… They locked him in a room at Cedars-Sinai and threw away the key. Out of all the women in his life, the only one who showed up was Jeanne. That’s the truth.”
Bacon’s voice cracked as he remembered how Jeanne’s loyalty rekindled their bond.
“From that moment, they became close again. Really close. I don’t think anyone ever loved him the way she did.”
Greg Garrison, producer of The Dean Martin Show, who had worked with Martin for years, confirmed that the connection between the two never really broke.
“They always cared about each other,” Garrison told reporters. “They’d been divorced a long time, but they realized they still needed one another.”
He painted a vivid picture of Dean’s quiet affection.
“He’d look into her eyes, and for a moment, he’d see the young girl he’d fallen in love with so long ago,” Garrison said softly. “That sparkle — it never left.”
Even Dean’s hard-drinking, carefree image — the one America adored — wasn’t all it seemed. His Rat Pack brother Joey Bishop finally set the record straight.
“You know that J&B bottle he always carried on stage?” Bishop laughed. “It wasn’t whiskey — it was apple juice.”
Behind the laughter was deep admiration. Bishop never stopped believing the couple belonged together.
“She was a wonderful woman, and he was a wonderful man. I don’t know what came between them,” Bishop admitted. “But if Dean married Jeanne tomorrow, I swear to God — I’d pay for the wedding.”
Today, the once-golden pair live quietly in Beverly Hills, only a few blocks apart. The roaring laughter of the Rat Pack era has faded into memory, replaced by the stillness of twilight dinners at their favorite restaurant, La Famiglia.
For a man who charmed millions, Jeanne remained the one presence who never demanded anything in return — the one who stood by him through addiction, loss, and silence.
Their story isn’t about perfection or fairy-tale endings. It’s about something rarer — a bond that outlasted love itself.
As Garrison once said, with a wistful smile that seemed to hold decades of memories:
“Maybe, after all these years, he still saw that same beautiful sparkle in her eyes… and maybe she saw his too.”
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