About The Song

By the time Loretta Lynn released “To Make a Man (Feel Like a Man)”, she was already a firmly established figure in American country music—a voice of the working-class woman, a truth-teller who knew how to navigate the fine lines between tradition and independence, tenderness and defiance. This particular song, drawn from her 1971 album I Wanna Be Free, is an especially intriguing entry in her catalog. It offers a nuanced, quietly powerful reflection on gender dynamics, expectations in marriage, and the complexities of emotional labor in relationships.

At its core, “To Make a Man (Feel Like a Man)” is about emotional intelligence—specifically, the way a woman might bend, soften, and support her partner in order to maintain the relationship’s emotional equilibrium. It’s a song about understanding—not submission. The lyrics speak to a kind of quiet strength that often goes unrecognized in discussions of empowerment. Rather than rebel against traditional roles, the narrator chooses to work within them, not out of weakness or conformity, but out of choice, love, and perhaps a deeper wisdom about human nature.

Musically, the track is in keeping with the classic Nashville sound of the early ’70s—smooth, melodic, and unobtrusive. The instrumentation is subtle and restrained, allowing Loretta Lynn’s vocals to carry the emotional weight of the song. Her delivery is sincere and composed, with that unmistakable clarity and conviction that made her one of the most respected vocalists of her time. There’s no sense of irony or satire here; instead, Lynn sings these lyrics with a heartfelt earnestness that underscores the real emotional labor being described.

What makes “To Make a Man (Feel Like a Man)” particularly compelling is the tension it holds between empowerment and accommodation. It’s not a protest song, nor is it a resignation. Rather, it’s a candid look at the kind of compromises—emotional, psychological, sometimes spiritual—that women often make to keep a relationship intact. And yet, Lynn doesn’t paint her narrator as a martyr. On the contrary, she gives her agency, voice, and purpose.

In a time when country music was still largely dominated by male voices and perspectives, Loretta Lynn dared to speak from a woman’s point of view with honesty and emotional nuance. “To Make a Man (Feel Like a Man)” may not be as brash or overtly political as some of her more famous songs, but it is every bit as insightful. It reveals her deep understanding of the human heart, and her ability to capture the unspoken rules and quiet negotiations that shape intimate relationships. In doing so, it stands as yet another example of Lynn’s unmatched ability to turn everyday experiences into timeless country music poetry.

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The man I’ve got loves cleaned up home and he likes to wear the breechesHe don’t like doin’ women things like washin’ clothes and dishesYou’ll find he’s not that hard to please if you love him right and fill his needsTo make a man feel like a man you gotta show him you’re a woman
Show him what you are you know you can do itDon’t let some other woman come along and beat you to itLots of girls might catch his eye but what is a girl when a woman falls byTo make a man feel like a man you gotta show him you’re a womanWhen he comes home from a hard day’s work he’s probably tired and dirtyDon’t let him find a slouchy queen have your castle lookin’ prettyThere’s lots of things that you shouldn’t do like just as many that you should do tooTo make a man feel like a man you gotta show him you’re a woman
Show him what you areTo make a man feel like a man you gotta show him you’re a woman